Author: Cassandra Damm
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BDSM Hookups and What Civilians Get Wrong About Power Exchange
Around 47 percent of Americans report having tried some form of bondage or dominance play at least once, according to a 2016 study published…
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Married Hookups and What We See That Therapists Won’t Say
Studies consistently show that between 20 and 25 percent of married Americans report having sex outside their marriage at some point. That’s not a…
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Hookup Culture Among Porn Actors and How It Actually Works Off Set
People assume porn actors are either constantly sleeping with each other off set or maintaining some kind of strict professional distance. Neither is quite…
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Hookup Advice from Women Who Do This for a Living
She’d been texting him for three days, rehearsing what she’d say when he showed up at her door. The candles were lit. The playlist…
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Sex Dating Sites Ranked by Someone Who Knows the Industry Inside Out
A few years back, a friend asked me which sex dating sites were actually worth joining. She’d already wasted $40 on a subscription that…
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Professional Dominants and the Line Between Session and Hookup
Have you ever wondered what actually happens on the other side of that dungeon door not the fantasy version, but the real, working version?…
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Casual Hookup Rules from the People Who Wrote the Playbook
She texted at 11:47 PM. He showed up at midnight. Nobody talked about what they actually wanted, and by 1 AM, someone felt used…
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Best Hookup Dating Sites a Sex Worker Would Actually Recommend
Are you tired of signing up for yet another site that promises everything and delivers a inbox full of unsolicited photos and bots pretending…
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Lesbian Hookups Through the Eyes of Queer Sex Workers
A few years back, I was sitting in a circle of folding chairs at a SWOP-Chicago meeting, and a member a former escort who’d…